Once anal play and anal sex was taboo. To say nothing of anal sex toys, which were almost contraband goods and considered to be "gay sex toys". Most men had the attitude that anal play is for the homosexual. Times have changed and most couples have tried anal play, anal sex or at least some adult toys.

Unfortunately, due to a lack of knowledge, many first attempts of anal play have resulted in some pain or discomfort. If you do anal play or anal sex correctly there is no pain at all. The increased stimulation you get from anal sex is due to very sensitive nerve endings that are found in your anus. Many women claim that anal orgasm are much stronger and brighter.

The key to putting anything up your rectum is to be relaxed and use lots and lots of  anal lubrication. The main reason for this is that unlike a woman’s vagina the anal canal does not produce any natural lubricant.

Remember never to use silicone or petroleum based lubrication with anal toys as the anal canal is unable to expel silicone or petroleum very well and will more than likely cause irritation.

The last thing you want is to loose a toy up your rectum. It would be highly amusing to the staff at Accident & Emergency and highly embarrassing for you.

 If you are inexperienced in this area it is best to start small with a small anal sex toy. It would be a good idea to read some info, provided on the sex toys websites. There you are also able to visit a sex toy shop and find everything you can imagine, starting from sexy lingerie and finishing with gay sex toys online shopping. Nothing that brings you satisfaction should be restricted.